About Janice Hillmer

Writer, grad student, traveller, accidental humourist and unwitting adventurer.

Adventures in Cultural Differences…

Posted on February 16, 2007 by Janice Hillmer

I’m getting ready to go skiing for 3 days. Three of us will be leaving here at 4:10 tomorrow morning. ugh.

As I was preparing for the trip, I went over some of the safety rules for the resort. I smiled when I came across the following notice:

Please use formal speak to other skiers. Often, it is hard to know the age and gender of fellow skiers due to shades, masks, and hats. Please use formal speak when addressing other skiers, just to be safe.

In Korea, ‘formal speak’ is used to talk to people higher than you on the Confucian Hierarchy of social importance. The polite form requires different endings on the verbs to convey respect. While this is just an everyday thing I’ve gotten used to, it still came as a surprise to see it on the rules and regulations for a ski resort.

Since I’ve picked up most of my Korean bit-by-bit, some of it I’ve learned with the respectful verb endings and some of it I’ve learned with just the regular, run-of-the-mill polite endings. I tend to bounce back and forth between them during any given exchange. That seems to be okay, because I’m a foreigner, and don’t really fit anywhere on the hierarchy.

Now, having read that notice, I’ll be listening tomorrow to hear just how many folks on the slopes actually heed the advice.

Posted on February 12, 2007 by Janice Hillmer

Adventures in Heartbreaking Economic Chasms…

Two tidbits of information I picked up recently.

1) From the Entertainment section of the news:

“ Some of the world’s wealthiest food lovers have flown in[to Thailand] for … dinner, which carries a price tag of US$25,000 a head.” (Read the article here.)

2) From some other reading I’ve been doing:

“Every day, almost 16,000 children die from hunger-related causes–one child every five seconds.” (Read more here.)

I’m not going to rant about how the money from that single meal could have taken all 16,000 children for a meal at the Outback Steakhouse. ( I realize this is not a rational solution, I’m just making a point.) While the injustice of it all really angered me, it also made me think “Hold on, Janice. You can’t just blast the uberwealthy, and let yourself off the hook.” And so, the quest continues: to find a way to live life, concious of the needs of others.

I think Gandhi put it succinctly when he said, “There is enough for everyone’s need but not enough for everyone’s greed.” The task at hand then, is to distinguish between the two. It’s easy to say “I don’t need $200,000 worth of wine at a single meal.” It’s not so easy to say “I don’t need more than one coat. I don’t need quite so many pairs of shoes.” See, right there, I can’t even bring myself to say I only need one pair of shoes. And so, the quest continues…

Posted on February 11, 2007 by Janice Hillmer

Adventures in Being Crafty…

My sister recently sent me some family photos, and ever since, I’ve been looking for frames. The problem I’ve been facing is choosing between expensive frames, ugly frames, or expensive AND ugly frames. Today, in an act of desperation, I grabbed some pictures from old calendars and magazines, chopped holes in ’em, and used them to frame the photos. Amazingly, they actually turned out nicely! I even branched out from the pictures Jen sent. For example, I found a picture of Butchart Gardens in Victoria. Since my Grandma really enjoyed that garden, I cut out the “This is Butchart Gardens” caption, and replaced it with a photo I had of Grandma. I’m really quite pleased with the result. Tomorrow I’ll go to the campus stationary store and pick up some heavier poster-board for backing, and maybe some clear plastic sheeting to protect the surfaces.

I also cleared out both of my sock drawers this afternoon and spent an hour on-line trying to figure out other uses for the holey, pilly, or ill-fitting rejects. I think I might try weaving them into potholders and/or baskets. I’ll let you know how that turns out.